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My Merry Christmas Blog of Thoughts…

OK…so…this is Christmas…and what have you done?? Well…I can tell you what I have done…a whole lot of stuff…and even still I have not done some things I wish I would have!!
I love this time of year...in case some of you may not have been able to guess!!!  Love all the Christmas movies that are out and being played!!  Christmas Vacation, Christmas Story, Miracle on 34th Street, The Santa Clause, and ALL the classic movies from the 60s & 70s with the old style puppets and claymation...just AWESOME!!  And of course all the Christmas music one can handle!!!  I LOVE IT ALL!!!

What a wonderful feeling when Christmas time is here!! I am in the mood, in the spirit, being the unofficial Cheermeister of everyone around me, I love this time of year. It’s just so much fun!! What’s not to love about Christmas?? Seriously…what’s not to love?? Go ahead; tell me…I wanna know!! I can’t think of anything…except for maybe the FLIPPING cold!!! (Yes…I am doing my best to curse a little less this time of year!!) It’s just the most wonderful time of the year. The songs that are played now, have so many different meanings. But the common meaning, to enjoy this time of year…be with family and friends who are dear to you…and spread a little cheer to your fellow man/woman. What’s NOT to love about this…I mean seriously!!!

What I just don’t get, is why society has turned into a bunch of pleasers. Why not just stand up for what you believe in??!! Why is it that we do things to make people smile, and bring joy and warmth to everyone’s heart, that when ONE PERSON complains…then we take it all down?? What the heck is up with that?? It’s just ridiculous how we just cower down, and bow to all the haters and complainers, because they don’t like us spreading the cheer. A Christmas tree is donated to a public school…and put up on display…two days later it is taken down, because someone complained. The CHRISTMAS Village in Philly, next to city hall, been there for 3 years…it’s all about Christmas…not in the religious sense…someone complains, and they take the sign CHRISTMAS down…WHY???!!! Luckily, the mayor said, it’s a Christmas village, and the sign stays, and it went back up. He also lit the CHRISTMAS TREE the next night…and said it was a CHRISTMAS TREE on television. Why?? CAUSE IT IS!!! What are people thinking calling it a Holiday Tree??!! I have a question…what IS a Holiday Tree. Hanukah has a bush, Christmas has a tree. So what is a Holiday Tree for?? What does it look like?? I have never seen one…have you??
Radio station NJ101.5 has a CHRISTMAS CHOIR contest going on right now. They want any schools with choirs to submit entries for singing Christmas songs. People are complaining because it’s a Holiday contest, and religion isn’t in the public schools. So…Jingle Bells…that’s a religious song?? How about Frosty the Snowman, or Here Comes Santa Claus?? Are they religious songs?? LIGHTEN UP PEOPLE!!! Have a heart!!! Seriously!!!

Well...that is all for now!!!  Although I do have one more point to make...Why is it, that one can come up wirth great last minute gift ideas, and they are already sold out...???  UGH!!!  From me to you...Have a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS...and a HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

What goes on here??

OK...someone explain it to me...Is it a gene thing??  The way your raised thing??  Are men just that dumb and ignorant??  I wanna know...where do some men get off??  Where do these morons come up with the idea that it's ok to do what they do??  What makes you think you are better than us??  What makes you think you are better than them??  What makes you think that you are better than anything or anyone?? 

OK...I bet by now...you are wondering what the hell am I talking about.  Well I will tell you...I am talking about why do some men have an idea, that they think it is right to abuse a woman??  What gives them the right??  What do they THINK gives them the right??  Where do you get off thinking it is ok to hit a woman??  Where do you get off thinking it is ok to abuse a woman...both mentally & physically??  I really wanna know...someone please explain it to me.  I have kept my mouth shut long enough on this topic.  I have seen it, or at least the results of it, or the signs if you will, too many times.  I am so sick of it!!!  It is just so wrong on so many levels.

Why is it, when a man and a woman have some kind of disagreement, and the man feels intimidated...or that the woman is wrong and he is right...that he has to hit??  What does that prove??  I want to know!!  Or...why when you don't get your way...then you call her names, or insult her...ad break her down to the point of whatever you say...you are right no matter what??  Come on tough guy...tell me!!  You have no idea what it takes to be a real man...what it takes to please a woman...what it takes to make a girl happy!!  If ya did...you would NOT strike her.  You would NOT insult her...call her names...demoralize every fiber of her being.  Real Men don't do that shit!!!  Real Men never raise a hand to a woman...or demoralize her in any way.

No...a real man would work it out if there is a disagreement.  He would never raise his hand to strike her.  He would never call her mean names, or insult to the point of bringing her to tears just to get his way.  Men & Women will ALWAYS have a disagreement or two or a million...that's just the way it is.  No way around it.  But that sure as hell doesn't mean that a man is always right...and a woman is always wrong...and to prove it to her, you're gonna knock the shit outta her, and set her straight!!!  That is just ludricous and a crock of bullshit!! 

You hurt these women.  You demoralize these women.  You crush the very fiber of their being to the point that if you say jump...they should already know how high!!  I mean really??  You are that big and bad, you can just hit a woman, and be ok with it??  You can insult her, calling her every name in the book, making her feel so worthless, so broken down, so far lost and gone from what is right, that she would think its OK for you to do such things to her.  Why??  For what??  I don't get it...you are nothing but a worthless piece of shit.  Any man who can do that to a woman is just a worthless, no good, useless piece of trash.

Tell ya what tough guy!!  You have a problem...and you feel like hitting a woman...come look me up.  You can try and knock my ass down.  I will guarantee you, it would be a LOT tougher than trying to knock these women down.  Not saying that these women couldn't hold their own against you.  But I bet you wouldn't know what the fuck hit you.  And then maybe...just maybe...it would knock some sense into you!!!  Doubtful...really fucking doubtful...but just maybe!!!

STOP THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!

That's all I have on this topic for now...

Wow...I am gonna be 39 tomorrow...I can't believe it...Where have all of the years gone?? Where do I go from here?? Gonna be interesting to say the least!!

Here is my 1st mobile blog...it's a simple one for a test. HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYONE!!! Hope you get a good scare in...HAHAHAHA

Communication is ALWAYS the Key...

You can tell a lot by how well a person is able to communicate with you when talking to them.  And you have an understanding of what makes that person tick.  Communication...it's the key to a lot of things.  Businesses, schools, families, and marriage are just some of the most common.  And I wanna talk about the last one...marriage.  If you don't have communication in your marriage...then it will never survive.  And having a form of bad communication doesn't work either.  Communication should ALWAYS be on the good side!!  If men & women did that, the world would get along a helluva lot better than it does now.
 
Who is to blame??  Who is at fault??  Why don't they just sit down and talk it out??  These are always the same questions that come up with the communication issues.  First I am gonna say...and this may get me into trouble...but...I am going to say that the guys are more at fault than the gals.  Why is that??  All I seem to ever hear...is that the guys never talk...the guys don't ask...inquire...or pry out of their wives what the problem is.  Again...why is that??  Why can't men communicate??  I don't know...I used to be like that...A LONG time ago...I used to not talk, I used to keep it all bottled up...I used to say...I ain't gonna ask what's wrong if you can't come right out and tell me.  I have learned, that this is wrong!!  This doesn't solve the problem.  This doesn't fix anything.  All it does, is mount more frustration & anger on top of a bad situation.  And the end result could be catastrophic. 

You can wake up alone one morning...because your wife has left you...because you won't talk to her any more.  Is it worth it??  Is it worth your stubbornness and pride to not tell her what your feeling??  To not ask her what is wrong??  And gals...you're not completely off the hook...You have to learn to speak your mind when you need to.  If you don't...you're gonna go insane.  Is it worth it to not talk to each other??  Is it worth the anger, the frustration, the dirty looks, all the emptiness??  That's what you will be left with in the end.  Nothing but a lot of emptiness.

I could go on & on about communication...and how everyone can practice better communication with each other...but I won't...You need to just finish reading this...and talk to your significant others...and tell them what you are feeling!!

Till next time!!!

Just a Few Thoughts...

As I write this...I am really tired...I was up late watching the JETS beat the Vikings 29-20 on Monday Night Football!! What an awesome game!!! Can I get a WOOT WOOT from my fellow JETS fans!!!

So...what's on my puny little mind?? Hmmm...Let me think...How about courtesy??!! What the hell is goin on in today's world with today's youth?? Did you all take a stupid pill recently?? Or a rudeness pill?? Maybe it was an ignorance pill?? I dunno what you took...but you need to stop it, and knock all the bullshit off!!! What am I talking about?? Let me explain...Most recently...like THIS MORNING...I am coming out of the WaWa, and I see a teenager with their hands full, I hold the door open...both actually...I get NO look, NO reaction...let alone...NO THANK YOU???!!! WTH??? Example #2...I recently was at the pharmacy...I won't say which one...but again...I am just being courteous, and holding the door for another teenager...and again...I get NO look, NO reaction, and NO THANK YOU!!! WTF???!!! Don't you kids have manners?? Didn't your parents teach you any?? You need to be thwacked in the back of the head to shake loose some of that common courtesy loose!!! How about a little common courtesy!!??

I would also like to thank the kids who walked passed my house the other day, and removed all my flag markers on the front lawn. Thanks!! I appreciate it...Good thing we are done with training my dog in the front yard!! Otherwise, we would have had to remark the area again...and that is a pain in the butt. How bout you respect other people's property!! Again...do I need to thwack you on the back of the head to shake common sense loose??

Recently...I posted a couple of statuses and BITCHED and COMPLAINED about my wife's company the Canine Fence Company...the Original Invisible Fence...I would like to explain my actions and opinions a little further. I will admit that I love the product...I stand by it...I highly recommend it to anyone and everyone!! It's a great thing to have for your pets. My problem was with how they were treating my wife. It's over...it's done with...and i will not get into it here nor there...but if you wanna discuss it with me...email me...HAHA

I apologize if some people are upset or offended by my statuses updates...but it is my opinion...and I am entitled to it...and if you dont like it...that's fine...while I am entitled to have one...you are also entitled to not like it...I don't have a fear of voicing my opinion on Facebook...so it is what it is!!

Halloween is in the air...and I LOVE IT!!! I only have one question though...Why when we go to the stores for whatever reason...are the Halloween decorations right next to the Christmas decorations?? Does that make sense to anybody?? I mean...forget that it's so early...what about the fact that there is a holiday in between...called THANKSGIVING??? WTH???!!! When did the holidays become so commercial?? Seriously!!! I dont remember it...LOL Well...anyway...I got my two boys helping me out with the decorations and theme this year...and I like the way they think...It is gonna be a GOOD and SCARY time for Halloween this year!!! LOL

Well...that's all that's on my mind for now!!! Until I blog again...