Sunday, October 31, 2010
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Communication is ALWAYS the Key...
You can tell a lot by how well a person is able to communicate with you when talking to them. And you have an understanding of what makes that person tick. Communication...it's the key to a lot of things. Businesses, schools, families, and marriage are just some of the most common. And I wanna talk about the last one...marriage. If you don't have communication in your marriage...then it will never survive. And having a form of bad communication doesn't work either. Communication should ALWAYS be on the good side!! If men & women did that, the world would get along a helluva lot better than it does now.
Who is to blame?? Who is at fault?? Why don't they just sit down and talk it out?? These are always the same questions that come up with the communication issues. First I am gonna say...and this may get me into trouble...but...I am going to say that the guys are more at fault than the gals. Why is that?? All I seem to ever hear...is that the guys never talk...the guys don't ask...inquire...or pry out of their wives what the problem is. Again...why is that?? Why can't men communicate?? I don't know...I used to be like that...A LONG time ago...I used to not talk, I used to keep it all bottled up...I used to say...I ain't gonna ask what's wrong if you can't come right out and tell me. I have learned, that this is wrong!! This doesn't solve the problem. This doesn't fix anything. All it does, is mount more frustration & anger on top of a bad situation. And the end result could be catastrophic.
You can wake up alone one morning...because your wife has left you...because you won't talk to her any more. Is it worth it?? Is it worth your stubbornness and pride to not tell her what your feeling?? To not ask her what is wrong?? And gals...you're not completely off the hook...You have to learn to speak your mind when you need to. If you don't...you're gonna go insane. Is it worth it to not talk to each other?? Is it worth the anger, the frustration, the dirty looks, all the emptiness?? That's what you will be left with in the end. Nothing but a lot of emptiness.
I could go on & on about communication...and how everyone can practice better communication with each other...but I won't...You need to just finish reading this...and talk to your significant others...and tell them what you are feeling!!
Till next time!!!
Who is to blame?? Who is at fault?? Why don't they just sit down and talk it out?? These are always the same questions that come up with the communication issues. First I am gonna say...and this may get me into trouble...but...I am going to say that the guys are more at fault than the gals. Why is that?? All I seem to ever hear...is that the guys never talk...the guys don't ask...inquire...or pry out of their wives what the problem is. Again...why is that?? Why can't men communicate?? I don't know...I used to be like that...A LONG time ago...I used to not talk, I used to keep it all bottled up...I used to say...I ain't gonna ask what's wrong if you can't come right out and tell me. I have learned, that this is wrong!! This doesn't solve the problem. This doesn't fix anything. All it does, is mount more frustration & anger on top of a bad situation. And the end result could be catastrophic.
You can wake up alone one morning...because your wife has left you...because you won't talk to her any more. Is it worth it?? Is it worth your stubbornness and pride to not tell her what your feeling?? To not ask her what is wrong?? And gals...you're not completely off the hook...You have to learn to speak your mind when you need to. If you don't...you're gonna go insane. Is it worth it to not talk to each other?? Is it worth the anger, the frustration, the dirty looks, all the emptiness?? That's what you will be left with in the end. Nothing but a lot of emptiness.
I could go on & on about communication...and how everyone can practice better communication with each other...but I won't...You need to just finish reading this...and talk to your significant others...and tell them what you are feeling!!
Till next time!!!
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Just a Few Thoughts...
As I write this...I am really tired...I was up late watching the JETS beat the Vikings 29-20 on Monday Night Football!! What an awesome game!!! Can I get a WOOT WOOT from my fellow JETS fans!!!
So...what's on my puny little mind?? Hmmm...Let me think...How about courtesy??!! What the hell is goin on in today's world with today's youth?? Did you all take a stupid pill recently?? Or a rudeness pill?? Maybe it was an ignorance pill?? I dunno what you took...but you need to stop it, and knock all the bullshit off!!! What am I talking about?? Let me explain...Most recently...like THIS MORNING...I am coming out of the WaWa, and I see a teenager with their hands full, I hold the door open...both actually...I get NO look, NO reaction...let alone...NO THANK YOU???!!! WTH??? Example #2...I recently was at the pharmacy...I won't say which one...but again...I am just being courteous, and holding the door for another teenager...and again...I get NO look, NO reaction, and NO THANK YOU!!! WTF???!!! Don't you kids have manners?? Didn't your parents teach you any?? You need to be thwacked in the back of the head to shake loose some of that common courtesy loose!!! How about a little common courtesy!!??
I would also like to thank the kids who walked passed my house the other day, and removed all my flag markers on the front lawn. Thanks!! I appreciate it...Good thing we are done with training my dog in the front yard!! Otherwise, we would have had to remark the area again...and that is a pain in the butt. How bout you respect other people's property!! Again...do I need to thwack you on the back of the head to shake common sense loose??
Recently...I posted a couple of statuses and BITCHED and COMPLAINED about my wife's company the Canine Fence Company...the Original Invisible Fence...I would like to explain my actions and opinions a little further. I will admit that I love the product...I stand by it...I highly recommend it to anyone and everyone!! It's a great thing to have for your pets. My problem was with how they were treating my wife. It's over...it's done with...and i will not get into it here nor there...but if you wanna discuss it with me...email me...HAHA
I apologize if some people are upset or offended by my statuses updates...but it is my opinion...and I am entitled to it...and if you dont like it...that's fine...while I am entitled to have one...you are also entitled to not like it...I don't have a fear of voicing my opinion on Facebook...so it is what it is!!
Halloween is in the air...and I LOVE IT!!! I only have one question though...Why when we go to the stores for whatever reason...are the Halloween decorations right next to the Christmas decorations?? Does that make sense to anybody?? I mean...forget that it's so early...what about the fact that there is a holiday in between...called THANKSGIVING??? WTH???!!! When did the holidays become so commercial?? Seriously!!! I dont remember it...LOL Well...anyway...I got my two boys helping me out with the decorations and theme this year...and I like the way they think...It is gonna be a GOOD and SCARY time for Halloween this year!!! LOL
Well...that's all that's on my mind for now!!! Until I blog again...
So...what's on my puny little mind?? Hmmm...Let me think...How about courtesy??!! What the hell is goin on in today's world with today's youth?? Did you all take a stupid pill recently?? Or a rudeness pill?? Maybe it was an ignorance pill?? I dunno what you took...but you need to stop it, and knock all the bullshit off!!! What am I talking about?? Let me explain...Most recently...like THIS MORNING...I am coming out of the WaWa, and I see a teenager with their hands full, I hold the door open...both actually...I get NO look, NO reaction...let alone...NO THANK YOU???!!! WTH??? Example #2...I recently was at the pharmacy...I won't say which one...but again...I am just being courteous, and holding the door for another teenager...and again...I get NO look, NO reaction, and NO THANK YOU!!! WTF???!!! Don't you kids have manners?? Didn't your parents teach you any?? You need to be thwacked in the back of the head to shake loose some of that common courtesy loose!!! How about a little common courtesy!!??
I would also like to thank the kids who walked passed my house the other day, and removed all my flag markers on the front lawn. Thanks!! I appreciate it...Good thing we are done with training my dog in the front yard!! Otherwise, we would have had to remark the area again...and that is a pain in the butt. How bout you respect other people's property!! Again...do I need to thwack you on the back of the head to shake common sense loose??
Recently...I posted a couple of statuses and BITCHED and COMPLAINED about my wife's company the Canine Fence Company...the Original Invisible Fence...I would like to explain my actions and opinions a little further. I will admit that I love the product...I stand by it...I highly recommend it to anyone and everyone!! It's a great thing to have for your pets. My problem was with how they were treating my wife. It's over...it's done with...and i will not get into it here nor there...but if you wanna discuss it with me...email me...HAHA
I apologize if some people are upset or offended by my statuses updates...but it is my opinion...and I am entitled to it...and if you dont like it...that's fine...while I am entitled to have one...you are also entitled to not like it...I don't have a fear of voicing my opinion on Facebook...so it is what it is!!
Halloween is in the air...and I LOVE IT!!! I only have one question though...Why when we go to the stores for whatever reason...are the Halloween decorations right next to the Christmas decorations?? Does that make sense to anybody?? I mean...forget that it's so early...what about the fact that there is a holiday in between...called THANKSGIVING??? WTH???!!! When did the holidays become so commercial?? Seriously!!! I dont remember it...LOL Well...anyway...I got my two boys helping me out with the decorations and theme this year...and I like the way they think...It is gonna be a GOOD and SCARY time for Halloween this year!!! LOL
Well...that's all that's on my mind for now!!! Until I blog again...
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